Friday, March 06, 2009

CHOCAHOLICS!


It's friday late afternoon and I am so exhausted from this busy week of socialising, I need to get back to Cape Town just to chill! Lucky me, we are going in two weeks for RnR. The caption on the picture on the left is specifically intended for my American friend, Kristen. "This is so you darlin!" She is the queen of chocolate, any dessert to do the with the sinful ingredient, is made by madame herself. I cannot imagine how many calories I have consumed by eating her desserts alone. Today she made "Crack", which her sister named, because you could get hooked on it so easily, a mouth-watering sort of mini cake made from Oreos. Well I am not a fan of chocolate but she will certainly turn me into one very shortly.
I did Scrapbooking on Wednesday morning, and one of the girls made biscotti, which I'd much more prefer, a real appertiser for cappuccino. I brought home a few that she packed in especially for me. Later that afternoon, I decided to have one with my coffee, and found only one left, but it had been dipped in water. GUESS WHO?? Torden decided that he liked them to, I was so mad, I demanded he dry the last one out, and I tried to eat it later that evening, well I can assure you, it's not the same. Not one place I know of sells them, so I now have to wait a few weeks until I reach South Africa, and you know the feeling when you want something you can't have, you automatically want it MORE..............
Well up to date, I have sold a lot of our household goods, that is the greatest feeling, to be able to discard, sell and give-away! I feel like I'm on the reality tv show " CLEAN HOUSE", except, I don't get to keep the house, and I don't get a home makeover, I need to do that all by myself.
I also have an issue with Torden and his school. I dropped him off this morning at school, something I hardly do anymore, as Lepauld ( our driver), is quite capable and enjoys doing it, and it gives Torden a chance to speak a little French with him. I was immediately called aside by one of his teachers, to reprimand me for not spending enough time with Torden in the afternoon after school with his homework, and how I need to consider doing numbers with him, as he doesn't recognise the numbers 1 - 10. I mean, c'mon, the child is 4 years OLD. It's ridiculous the way they push the children. Besides he is in Montessori, where they are supposed to work at their own pace. And not be compared to children in his class his own age. She specifically mentioned his friend's name. I felt really bad at first, but after thinking about it seriously, I am MAD! I told his teacher from when he started getting homework that I am not going to push him, and I don't. He does some of his homework while eating breakfast before school, as he is so tired when he comes home from school which is from 8am - 2pm Mon - Fri. You know she even said that he should be aiming to write 1 - 100 soon. HA ha ha ha! I don't know what we are doing pushing our children like this, I know that things are bad around the world, but hey give us a break!
ANY COMMENTS PLEASE????

2 comments:

Kristen said...

I LOVE that pillow! I am trying to reduce the amount of chocolate I consume, but the more I think about it, the more I eat it! Oh, why even bother? It makes me happy, and it motivates me to exercise.

That is SO CRAZY about Torden's teacher! I completely agree with you on this matter. He's going to be in school for the next 17 years or so, and so I don't know why she wants to rush his childhood. He's still a little boy!

I look forward to seeing you tomorrow at yoga, and I had so much fun with you yesterday. I have to pretend that you really aren't going to leave, because it just won't be the same without you!

Congopit said...

Thanks Kristen, I feel like crying now. Yes I am really sad! Something tells me I should move on and get over it, but I can't not yet. See ya at yoga.